You hear so many horror stories of people using dating sites... all kinds of lies being told... false photos... it'd scare me to death! Anyway, hope you find Mr Right soon...

that's the main different between good daters and bad one. Good daters just go to the date to have fun. You go to meet someone have conversation, have nice meal. So you enjoy yourself. Bad daters always keep in mind, oh its such a hard work, I have to find out about him/her as quickly as possible. I have to be at my best, and not who I really am.

Don't see it as work,and you'll enojoy it much more

one lie hides a thousand...oh but dont give up it will come good soon!!

i hope you read my post on dating before you went???
it can be a very tiring business but something that we must endure if we're not to live alone.
and take no notice of mens supposed heights...they always fib about how many inches they have!

I truly don't know why people are not straight forward and tell the truth.

Take care and have fun.
x

I know where you are coming from. I do love to be alone, but there are those times I would love to snuggle up to someone, laugh, and play. But dating doesn't have to be hard work if you just go out and have fun.

i did this sort of thing about 5 or 6 years ago, and went out with a few women i'd met online. none of them had told the truth about themselves either and i found it a bit of a shock to be honest. relationships tend to come along when you least expect them and when you aren't looking. that said my brother married a woman he met on a dating site and five years later they are still together and have a lovely daughter - so it does work.
it took me a few months after my last relationship to acclimatize myself to being on my own - i enjoy it, but then I wouldn't say I am alone - just not dating anyone.

It's a shame that men feel that they need to lie to get a date, especially about something so trivial as height!Says something about how shallow we humans are about appearance!

Like you say you are not worried about height but dislike being lied to.

Terrifying dating! I was a bit of a coward and stayed with one of the first men i met through a dating site!

My sister is on her own and is fed up and tried a couple of dates all of which came to nothing, she is gorgeous, gorgeous, gorgeous but just doesn't meet the right guys- it isn't easy is it? I was a single mum for a while and I did feel lonely at times, especially at night and weekends.

I suggested speed dating to her and she is going to give it a go -you can cut straight to the chase and just find out if something clicks, if not you just move on to the next person and it's supposed to be great fun... no expectations, just good fun and no-one gets hurt.....I wish you're prince will come sometime soon anyway hun x