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by Confuddled @ 2007-12-11 - 19:38:14

Was reading a friends blog about their work Christmas do, and it reminded me about mine. Notwithstanding the party frock saga, I'm really not looking forward to my work's do on Thursday night. I'm already trying to work out an appropriate time to leave. My excuse is that I have to catch a train home so definately can't stay out too late. Woman on her own and all that...

Just thinking how many there are of us who end up going to such events but given half a chance would be somewhere else. To be fair I haven't been to a work's do for a long time. Don't know if it an age thing? I like to think it's just that as I've got older and more self assured, I'm now more choosey about who I spend my social time with!! :) Gone are the days that I'm prepared to make inane small talk, with people I wouldn't choose to see after work, and pretend I'm having a good time, when clearly I'm not.

I know I'm in danger of making myself sound like a real barrel of laughs, but the fact is I'm not and never was someone who wanted to be the life and soul of a party. I like small, more intimate gathering of friends. I enjoy laughing, chatting and joking into the wee hours of the morning, but it has to be with the right bunch of people. Next week our little department is going skating and then having a meal afterwards. Now, that I am looking forward to. Although I'll still not stay out too late! Got that train to catch...

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EllieGantEllieGant pro
2007-12-11 @ 19:46

I totally agree with you. I used to dread the work Christmas do. It seemed so artificial, and such hard work. Like you, I'd rather socialise with friends, because we want to meet up, rather than because it's expected. But I hope you have a good time - on both occasions.

ConfuddledConfuddled pro
2007-12-11 @ 21:53

Thank you. It's also nice to know there are others that feel the same.

adamantixxadamantixx [Member]
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2007-12-11 @ 21:39

my works do is on thursday night too and i'm not really excited about it either...i totally agree with your sentiments here and find that getting older means you value your time more and are less keen to waste it! :)

ConfuddledConfuddled pro
2007-12-11 @ 21:54

We're a fine o'l bunch, aren't we!!!

PrettyintelligentprincessPrettyintelligentprincess [Member]
2007-12-11 @ 23:41

So...don't go then! x Don't bow to the pressure....I dare you! Try to relax tho...really...if you do go....x

ConfuddledConfuddled pro
2007-12-12 @ 20:19

I could have said no - there was no pressure. Because I haven't been to a work's do for ages, at the time I thought I'd may as well go. As usual, closer to the time, I want to start backtracking! Did consider having a sickie - but I wont, and I will go.

ConfuddledConfuddled pro
2007-12-13 @ 15:58

I've cheated. Have taken the sickie!

PrettyintelligentprincessPrettyintelligentprincess [Member]
2007-12-17 @ 23:27

I am not going to say, 'I told you so....'...but I guess I just did! So what. You have dealt with that situation a way you feel comfortable with. You had the courage to do that. So good for you! x

sidejumpsidejump [Member]
2007-12-12 @ 08:13

ah, this is because you are strawberry ice cream : )
But I know what you mean, larger office parties are intimidating, and it can be difficult to find enough in common to talk about it. I am lucky, my office is small, and I get on with everyone. I quite enjoy it when we do something social together, but ironically, we are not going to this December-

ConfuddledConfuddled pro
2007-12-12 @ 20:20

I forgot about the strawberry ice cream!!! :))

blacksheep63blacksheep63 pro
2007-12-14 @ 19:05

small groups of people are much better. our work 'do's are a little dull to be honest. the other night 8 academics went for a curry (no its not a joke..) and it was nice but we just chatted like we do everyday over lunch. by 9.30 most were full and heading home. i went to the pub with one colleague - we had a drink and then ran into some students (naturally) - he sloped off home and i stayed and chatted to them - that was much more fun!

ConfuddledConfuddled pro
2007-12-14 @ 19:34

Agree. I got out of going to the work do last night, but will have to do the skating next week. Actually, that shouldn't be too bad as there's only 7 of in the dept.

blacksheep63blacksheep63 pro
2007-12-15 @ 00:03

skating sounds fun though - we thought about going bowling but it never happened

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