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One night stands

by Confuddled @ 2007-11-23 - 23:03:43

I was never someone that did one night stands. Sometimes I wish I could - well, not sure that's true. Sitting in bed alone, with my blog, thinking that it would be nice to cuddle up to someone tonight. Actually, it would be nice to do more than cuddle up to someone :**:

I enjoy the feeling of naked skin against naked skin - the softness, warmth and sensuality of it. Touching and caressing. I enjoy the passion of lovemaking but also having fun at the same time. Laughing, teasing, smiling...together.

Going back to my comment about one night stands, as much as I yearn to be
f>:XXd, I can't bring myself to "do it" with just anyone. I need to fancy them, yes, but I need to feel a level of trust as well. Sex/lovemaking is about letting go....totally and for me to do that, I need to feel safe and secure.

I would never judge anyone who did one night stands - they're probably having a lot more fun than me right now!

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adamantixxadamantixx [Member]
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2007-11-24 @ 00:10

one-nighters are often like eating a meal on the run,
you basically get what you want but remain unsatisfied...physical intimacy is a poor substitue for emotional closeness and cuddles x

ConfuddledConfuddled pro
2007-11-24 @ 10:41

Well summed up - totally agree. It is the emotional closeness that makes it special.

PrettyintelligentprincessPrettyintelligentprincess [Member]
2007-11-24 @ 18:35

They are a temporary fix and generally you are left feeling dissatisfied and yet wanting more.

deleted user [Visitor]

2007-11-25 @ 18:56

Don't laugh but I was always useless at one night stands. I couldn't, as it were, perform. In the end I gave up trying. My point? One nighters are potentially very disappointing. At least, they were when I was involved. :) James.

ConfuddledConfuddled pro
2007-11-25 @ 18:58

I wont laugh... promise!

M

ranfuchsranfuchs pro
2007-12-06 @ 23:35

For me it's like eating junk food. You can enjoy it. If you don't have to much you don't have to regret it, but it is not a substitute to a real good meal

ConfuddledConfuddled pro
2007-12-07 @ 19:19

Another good analogy!

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